While it’s normal to share good news about promotions or new achievements with friends and family, it’s important not to come across as boastful or a showoff. cavity, now, more than ever. Considering the current times, life coach and image consultant Samira Gupta urges people to be emotionally intelligent. If you know that your friend or relative is going through a difficult time, ask yourself – how will the information I share help them? If it doesn’t help, you should give your achievements some time to unfold. However, if you feel that sharing might motivate them or boost their morale, go ahead, says Samira. Here are a few suggestions on how to share during this time… Work-related achievements where you accomplished something big should emphasize your hard work. But, be cautious in how you communicate about your professional victories. Use a phrase like, ‘Finally everything is falling into place, I’m sure things will work out for everyone’. Make sure you don’t pinpoint someone else, he suggests coach, consultant and soft skills coach Sudhir Udayakanth. Looking for a new home? Sharing news of this momentous achievement comes with great responsibility. While you revel in the new space you bring with you, you must avoid disparaging comments about others. Putting it down like ‘No one else can invest in a house at such a young age as me’, will not enhance your status. Instead, you probably mean sound. To compare if you can, he recommends mental and emotional health coach Kanchan Rai.Milestones like marriage or expecting a child marriage to be canceled due to a pandemic or women being stranded In planning a pregnancy, it is important to be sensitive. You never fail to show that you are not only responsible for good news. For example, you might say, ‘I couldn’t have achieved the joys of motherhood without such a supportive spouse,’ or, ‘My best friend really stepped it up to make life easier. This marriage can happen.’ People are always receptive to hearing success stories when recognition is given where it is due. Stick to self-revelation instead of self-praise, he advises Kanchan Rai. If you’re not a good communicator, write it down before making a call. Skills coach Sudhir Udayakanth suggests jotting down points or lines about what you want to convey before making the call. “Write points. People with bad communication skills get emotionally involved half the time they are thinking about other people and not themselves. So, be objective and keep your sentences short and sweet. Points to keep in mind authenticity: Share your struggles as confidently as you share your achievements. Responsibility: Stay away from sharing personal achievements that are likely to trigger people. For them. Make the message personal: For example, ‘I’m so excited to share this news with you because you’re special to me. .’I bought a new house in an expensive area’.’ I can’t believe how many people are losing their jobs but my son recently got promoted’. Before sharing the news… make sure you ask about the person’s happiness and gauge their mood. Proceed only if everything is normal at their end.
